Why a Pastoral Counselor?

While it is true that some pastors and members of religious orders provide pastoral counseling, they may or may not have a professional degree or license.cialis Nun Katherine wanted her work to her work to be on a level with the best professional counselors, having the same measure of accountability in the areas of ethics, best practices, and continuing education. She also wanted the benefits of a theological degree.

A master’s degree program in pastoral counseling includes all subjects leading to mental health counselor licensure as well as subjects that prepare the counselor for ministry–—such as Old and New Testament, Theology, and Church History. Pastoral Counseling is understood as a ministry of the Church. Candidates are ordained clergy, those preparing for ordination, or those who have the endorsement of their bishop to serve the Church in this special calling. The pastoral counselor, like the chaplain, is trained to help people of any faith background. It is the clients’ choice how much, and in what way, their faith should be an element of the counseling.

A pastoral counselor is trained to help people develop better habits of relating to themselves, others, and God. The counselor is there to help them move out of the “stuck places” in their lives–—to move, change, and grow toward their spiritual potential.

People come to pastoral counselors for help with:

  • Better understanding themselves, their lives, and their families
  • Forming and maintaining healthy relationships
  • Rising from depression
  • Recovering from the betrayal, abuse, and neglect of childhood
  • Finding more positive solutions when old solutions such as food, substances, and cutting, have become problematic
  • Learning more positive ways of dealing with anger
  • Dealing with loss and grief
  • Exploring the meaning and power of forgiveness
  • Discovering God’s purpose in their lives

The pastoral counselor is interested in how people’s life journey has affected their experience of faith and their relationship with religion. When these are painful, then paths for healing and reconciliation may be explored.

Professional Background

Nun Katherine is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the State of Indiana. She began her work as a counselor in 1984 on the social services staff of the Raphael House Family Shelter in San Francisco. In 1990 she left to devote herself to spiritual development as a nun in the Eastern Orthodox Christian tradition, moving to Indianapolis in 1992 to lead a small community of nuns. In 2003 she enrolled in a counseling program at Christian Theological Seminary (CTS) in Indianapolis; her professional training included a chaplaincy internship at Methodist Hospital, volunteer pastoral counseling with adolescent girls at the Indianapolis Juvenile Correctional Facility, as well as individual, couples, and family therapy at the CTS Counseling Center. She graduated in 2008 with the degree of Master of Arts in Pastoral Care and Counseling, summa cum laude. For a number of years she has researched and presented on topics in psychotherapy and the teachings of the Early Church. These topics include anger, anxiety, and attachment.

She has participated in Indiana Psychoanalytic Society study groups for work with trauma and dissociation. She also has presented at the following professional events:

  • Healing the Broken Hearted Conference, (2002, Kansas City Missouri)
  • International Orthodox Psychotherapy Conference
  • Links to more recent publications and interview are here.

She is an EMDR certified therapist (since 2014) for the treatment of abuse and neglect, practicing other modalities as well.

Spiritual Background

Nun Katherine grew up in the Episcopal Church in New York. She embraced the Eastern Orthodox Christian faith while serving as a counselor for homeless families at Raphael House in San Francisco. In 1988 she was tonsured a nun, continuing to serve at the shelter. In 1990 she joined the St. Xenia sisterhood in the mountains of northern California. In 1992 she was sent to Indianapolis to take the position of superior of the St. Xenia Monastic Community where she continues to serve as abbess. The community life includes daily common and private prayer, work, and fellowship.

She has also spent time in monasteries in Ethiopia and Herzegovina (former Yugoslavia) to be enriched by the Orthodox Christian life as practiced in those countries.

Her seminary training included biblical Greek, preparing her for the spiritual practice of studying the Bible and early Church writers in the original language. She is involved in an ongoing comparison of current psychotherapy approaches with the “soul therapy” of the early Church, offering clients the best of both while also ensuring traditional Christian clients and their pastors that counseling will not introduce elements contrary to Church tradition. She has been given the blessing to serve as a pastoral counselor by HE Metropolitan, LONGIN, Serbian Orthodox Christian bishop of Midwestern America.

Presentations & Publications

Books by Nun Katherine

Find all of Nun Katherine’s books at her Amazon author page here.

Anxiety, Trust, and Gratitude

Transformative Wisdom Series, Volume 4

Anxiety, Trust, and Gratitude is for any reader who desires to confront the angst of our times through living a more intentional life according to biblical precepts. The essays are based on talks presented at the 16th, 18th, and 25th annual conferences of the Fellowship of Saint Moses the Black, a pan-Orthodox, multi-racial ministry. Early Church writers define anxiety as a natural consequence of fallen human nature. Holy Scriptures give us trust and gratitude toward God as the remedy. What holds us back from practicing these essential virtues? How can we overcome the spiritual and psychological stumbling blocks?

Published: 2020

List price: $12.00. Available for purchase here.


Illumining Shame, Anger, and Forgiveness

Transformative Wisdom Series, Volume 3

Illumining Shame, Anger, and Forgiveness examines these intrinsic human experiences through the complementary lenses of biblical faith and modern psychology. How does shame remind us that we have lost Paradise? What does anger have to do with family and social roles? How can we learn to welcome returning “prodigals”?

Published: 2017

List price: $12.00. Available for purchase here.


Race, Identity, and Reconciliation

Transformative Wisdom Series, Volume 2

Race, Identity, and Reconciliation is for anyone who seeks to be part of the conversation on the shifting paradigms of our times. The chapters are expanded from talks presented at the 22nd and 23rd annual conferences of the Brotherhood of Saint Moses the Black.

Different regional views on human value, race, and faith are at the heart of an ongoing national struggle over the identity and direction of the U.S. What insights can the Orthodox Church contribute as an expression of Christianity that was not involved in African slave trade or economy?

Published: 2016

List price: $10.00. Available for purchase here.


Loneliness or Fruitful Longing

Transformative Wisdom Series, Volume 1

Loneliness or Fruitful Longing is for pastors, counselors, and people seeking hope for their own loneliness. It explores loneliness, its causes and its cures. It describes human vulnerability to loneliness from personal, social, and economic perspectives. It describes the impact of loneliness on physical and mental health, suicide, abortion. Finally, the book proposes spiritual approaches to resolve loneliness. Loneliness or Fruitful Longing expands on a talk originally delivered at the 20th annual Ancient Christianity and Afro-American Conference.

Published: 2014

List price: $6.75. Available for purchase here.


Traditions of the Healing Church

Traditions of the Healing Church is written with you in mind if you are: curious about the Orthodox Faith, a catechumen, interested in Eastern vs. Western Christianity, or seeking to share your Orthodox faith with others. It is based on talks presented at conferences of the Fellowship of Saint Moses the Black in Denver and Newark.

Published: 2014

List price: $6.00. Available for purchase here.


YouTube

Find recordings of Nun Katherine’s liturgical compositions, along with talks and other videos, at her YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@nunkatherineweston.


Interviews

Interview with Dr. Herman Middleton: On Loneliness


Interview with Dr. Herman Middleton: Why is Gratitude Important?


Interview with Dr. Herman Middleton: Orthodoxy and Psychotherapy


Racial reconciliation interview with Dn. Adam Roberts


Racial reconciliation interview with Fr. John Chryssavgis


Racial reconciliation interview with Fr. John Chryssavgis